What does an individual do when the love of there life is killed right before their eyes? It’s one thing to lose a loved one but another to witness that person be killed right in front of your face. Typically after losing a loved one an individual will experience grief in a number of forms. In Alex Cross, by James Patterson, the main character Alex loses his wife and experiences grief at several times throughout the book. For example, when Alex and his daughter Janelle begins to cry he begins to tear up feeling overwhelmed by reality and unreality of losing his wife. Alex also question why she had been taken away for no reason. Another time, Alex receives a letter from a serial killer who threatens to kill the grandmother and his kids. Feeling …show more content…
For instance, a psychologist help people handle their fears, guilt or anxiety that comes along with losing a beloved one. If and individual needs help coping with a loss one can see a psychologist. “Practicing psychologists use a variety of evidence based treatments most commonly psychotherapy to help people improve their lives”(American Psychological Association). Psychologist have doctoral degrees to deal with individuals who have trouble coping with a loss of a loved one. To add on, many health professionals have guides and tricks for an individual to deal with the harshness of grief. As explained in the book, “ You may be familiar with mind mapping from school. In grief work, it’s another way to help release your feelings”(Kuehn 37). Mind mapping can aid an person who needs a way to express how they feel about a loss. In addition, one who need help can contact different support groups and organization. On the condition that an individual doesn't know who to reach out to, “Many organizations can help teens deal with their grief when a loved one dies. These organizations offer private advice and can refer you to other helpful sources”(Kuehn 41). An individual who need help dealing with loss and grief can find support at various places. Through much new research on grief there are several treatment options and outlets to help those who are dealing with a
Victor’s Family Counselors often will have clients decide to come to therapy because the client is having trouble grieving the loss of a loved one, thing, or pet. Different cultures handle death differently. The case study in Chapter 15 in The Life Span book written by Broderick and Blewitt (2015), introduces a family who is having a difficult time accepting the death of Victor. Victor is married to Isabella, for fifty-three years the couple lived together. The couple who is Italian has four adult children, Paul, Sophia, and twins Lenore and Joseph.
Moralez, A. Grief Among Individuals with Developmental Disabilities. In UNM.edu. Retrieved from http://coc.unm.edu/common/manual/Grief.pdf The article addresses the issues surrounding the grieving process of people with intellectual disabilities (ID). It defines grief, the stages of grief, and the tasks required to have a healthy grieving process.
Reflection In the year 2042 the world is severely polluted and destructed. Alex and Sloan are somewhat friends, they have been staying together ever since the world had been taken over by human waste. Alex was fed up with her lifestyle of fighting over recourse and living in distress, thus, she came up with a plan to find one the government 's safe houses and live there, she wishes to do so with the help of Sloan. The inciting moment is when the pollution began and people started dying.
In fact, it involves helping the relatives emotionally, as losing someone you love naturally invokes feelings of intense grief, sadness and anger. Learning about different psychological and therapeutic ways to console a mourning family in textbooks might be simple, but putting these methods in practice is more complicated. When Alexandre first started working at the funeral home, facing families gave him a lot of anxiety. For example, he would sweat excessively when talking to them and would often feel flustered. In addition, dealing with families also involves juggling the economic side of funeral services and possible ethical dilemmas.
Have you been in love? Love does not have any shape, It does not look at social classes, skin color, even if your parents do not like you to be with her or him, but sometimes those are small obstacles that do not allow us to be with the person we love. A clear example, can be Ophelia and Hamlet in the play called Hamlet written by William Shakespeare. This pair of characters were in love with each other, but, Polonius, Ophelia's father, was against this relationship because he thinks Hamlet is playing around with her. As many relationships, everybody has parallel and contrast things.
I recommend he be prescribed a 16 week treatment program involving "interpersonal therapy, motivational interviewing, positive psychology and cognitive-behavioral therapy" to assist him in understanding his grief and moving on (Columbia
The first article, Reconstructing Meaning through Occupation After the Death of a Family Member: Accommodation, Assimilation, and Continuing Bonds by Steve Hoppes and Ruth Segal talked about grieving. To make yourself a better occupational therapist, promoting healthy occupational recovery after a death of a loved one. When grievers made sense to their losses in spiritual, personal, practical, or existential terms, it resulted in them feeling less separated from their loved one which allowed them to move one with their lives in a healthier way. To do this, people had to establish continuing bonds with the deceased person. Successful adaptation to life after your loved one’s death is developing new relationships and activities.
Keiski acknowledges that, “Individual therapy with a psychologist or psychiatrist is probably the most common form of treatment for people suffering from any sort of depression or need help through a crisis.” (95). In most cases, suicide is a result of how lonely the victim may feel since they may not fully receive the love and care they deserve. Hence, it is important that professional caretakers reach out to them since they may feel too embarrassed of their negative thoughts. Directly connecting to this idea, most times family members and friends are not too sure about how to address this with the victim since they do not really know how to help.
Many times, in your life you will find yourself fighting against adversity, whether its physical or mental adversity, you will have to find the courage to overcome it. I read the book, Alex Rider, by Anthony Horowitz and throughout the novel the main character Alex undergoes many struggles and urges himself to fight through them. After reading this book I have come to a realization that the theme is to overcome adversity because of the many times Alex has encountered these moments. The points I will be explaining to you are his unfortunate events building up in his mental state, and his willingness to not give up when his body is telling him to.
CNA Dorothy is a valuable asset to your facility she was willing to help at every turn without an attitude or frown on her face. Your CNAs or over worked and under staff, most RN’s refuse to help with patient care such as baths, feedings and patient waste(BM). One CNA should not be required to feed, bath, turn and clean patients alone without any assistance. (Especially ventilation patients this a job for two people.)
In Superman and Me by Sherman Alexie, Alexie’s father’s love for books grew to make his self-love books ending up in Alexie teaching himself how to read. Alexie describes the stereotypes and what is expected of Indian children and how Indian children were expected to basically have no knowledge Many lived up to those expectations inside the classroom but invalidated them on the outside. While other children were doing this, Alexie’s father was one of the few Indians on the reservation who went to Catholic School on purpose and was also an devoted reader. Alexie grew up around books. His father had a strong love for books as he bought them by the pound from pawn shops, goodwill and the salvation army.
It is becoming a more widely accepted form of grieving. People are turning to the internet and social media more these days as way of grieving and communicating their grieving. The internet is used to share practical information like funeral or memorial service details, news related to death and families of the deceased use it to communicate with others. Emerging adults prefer to use social media because they prefer to share information about the deceased in online environments in order to demonstrate that they cared about the individuals as opposed to simply gaining a sense of closure. Furthermore, as using social media or other online avenues has become socially accepted, subjects were more comfortable with online grieving and did not want to change their grieving
Cognitive Based Therapy When an individual experiences grief and difficulties moving beyond the pain and loss associated with grief; the individual may be experiencing complicated grief. “Complicated grief is a condition that occurs when something impedes the process of adapting to a loss. The core symptoms include intense and prolonged yearning, longing and sorrow, frequent insistent thoughts of the deceased and difficulty accepting the painful reality of the death or imagining a future with purpose and meaning” (Sheer & Bloom, 2016, p.6). Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) is a treatment approach that social workers and therapists may utilize to help the individual change their pattern of negative thinking or behaviors. “CBT has been used to
The more I don’t know, the more I know. The more I realize I don’t understand, the more I discover my desire to know more about psychology. My interest in educational psychology was triggered by my first experience in changing schools.
To be able to know how to deal with the losses that are discussed in the following chapters, it is important to have a clearer understanding of loss and grief and how to cope with grief following