Older Adult Interview
Betty was born August 30, 1930 in southern Missouri. Her parents, Maggie and Casey, were your everyday farmers in Christian County. She had an older sister, Wanita, and an older brother, Wayne, as well as a few younger siblings. Growing up, she was blessed to be in a Christian home, where your faith was everything.
When she was asked, “Who were the most important people that contributed to your development, both as a child and as an adult? In what ways were they important to you?” She replied, “My parents because as a child they guided me as I grew up and as an adult, supported my husband and I through the good and bad times. Also, Mount Baptist Church for showing me the way of the Lord as well as my older brother
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Has it been satisfactory? In what aspects of your life have you been most satisfied? Least satisfied? What was your favorite age range?” She grinned at me and replied,” I’ve loved my life. It’s been great. I have a husband that blessed me for many many years, a wonderful family, and a loving God. It has been more than satisfactory and I do not regret anything.”
According to Erickson’s theory, Ego Integrity vs. Despair, Betty is at a level of Ego of Integrity. She feels whole and satisfied with her achievements and has adapted to her life’s triumphs and disappointments. She had attained a sense of completeness and cohesion of herself (Theris A. Touhy, 2016, p. 37).
I asked her, “How would you describe your life now? What activities do you enjoy and how do you spend your time?” She said, “My life now is not how I predicted it to be. I must rely on my family, especially my daughter, to help take care of my husband and I because I’m getting to where I can’t. If it wasn’t for her coming over every morning and night, I don’t know what we would have done. My son doesn’t live as close as she does, but he will help us by driving us to the doctor sometimes. We have both been to a nursing home in the past, and although they were good to us, it is nice to be home. A lot of people our age goes in there for rehab like us and never get to leave. The Lord had different plans for us
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I asked her where she gives herself her insulin and she showed me how she rotated sites between the left and right side of her stomach and the backsides of her upper
Next I asked her the 12 Erikson questions, about random life accomplishments and memories. Most of the questions that I had asked her were either related to her life accomplishment, memories, or something she would have changed with her life, such as if she would rather grow as a teenage now or when she did. When asked how important her family is to her, she responded “Very, because that is my life,” which I could vouch for because my mom does a lot for both my dad and I. In another question I asked, What advice would you give to the younger generation?Why her answer was, “Don’t wait to do something, live for the moment.”
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Her family had ties in Grand Rapids, Michigan so they moved there. Betty wanted to be a dancer at a young age so when she was eight years old, she attended the Calla Travis Dance Studio. She was so proficient at dancing, she had her own dancing school while she was still attending high school. At the age of 16, her father died from carbon monoxide poisoning; this left her mother to support the family.
Crying, she says to herself in tears something her brother once said, “It will get better, maybe not today, but it will, and you will live to see that
Every Sunday I always go to church and usually the congregation is divided into the general sections. You have the youth who sits in the front; the families occupy the middle and the elderly who sits in the back. I never really have the chance to talk to the elderly in the back. Of course, I come and kiss some of them on the cheek and say hello but, never thought that I would have the opportunity to sit and understand them. The initial idea was to choose someone from an elderly center but, they denied me for privacy reasons.
An outsider: a person who does not belong. I stepped onto the chilly, uninviting plane with a sparkle of hope and adventure in my eyes. I was flying in an enormous plane to go on a gruesome eighteen hour flight. At first sight, every single person shot at us, not because we were flying a plane. But, because we were eight American-
Working as a Certified Nursing Assistant, I’ve been able to meet lots of patients and residents who dwell within the Late Adulthood stage of development. I decided to interview and speak with one of my facility’s residents who was a white, middle class, 81 year old male. This man showed signs of the late adulthood development stage, such as showing symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease, having optimism about his life as describe in Activity Theory, and a gradual change in health that resulted in increased manifestations of arthritis. These factors demonstrated by the resident are a clear indication of what developmental stage he is in, and can help others, including myself, understand what else he could begin to experience in the next phases of his
In front of her was an old woman. "I know what you're going through" she said. "Give your son this, and he'll always be by your
She told me that she has received letters from previous children that she used to watch. They thanked her for the influence that she had on them and encouraging them to go to church.
The crisis experienced in Erikson’s eighth stage, late adulthood, is ego integrity vs. despair. According to Erikson’s theory Betty will most likely look back at her life with despair, fearing death due to having lived what she will probably think of as a meaningless
This has helped her overcome so much heartbreak, from losing my dad, my sister, and my brother to her own health issues and through it all her faith has never been shaken. I look at my mother with nothing less than amazement. After my dad had his heart attack and could no longer work my mom never failed to provide for all her children, we didn't have a lot but we always had enough. This made me such a humble and grateful person, and I never take anything I have for granted.
She told me that we, her kids, were what kept her going when she had nothing else. After knowing this, I was curious about my dad, but more importantly wanted to help others in these kinds of situations. I knew that it took alot to keep going, and it would be hard for someone to do. It made me want to help people in my mom’s situation more than other people helped my mom. I saw my mom as a strong woman for pushing on and not giving up, and I wanted to be the same way as a person.
I probably should stop freaking out dog owners, when I guess their dog’s age. I am confident that I can be fairly accurate. I can do this with people. But, I do not even try with “skill” with women of course.
My mother is one of those selfless people,who, through her everyday actions, always has a positive impact on my life. From the wise advice given from time to time to the small lectures imparted when I do something "wrong" she proves that her own life experiences have helped her to make me a better person than she was at my age. I moved to the U.S. from my native El Salvador in my early youth, and had difficulties due to my inability to speak any English. This, my mother taught me, was a moment to prove my true potential and ability to adapt and succeed. The first time I went to school, at the start of my second grade year, it was tough for me to try to be social since I didn't know how to interact.
My Personal Hero We all grow up different, that is a fact, some don’t need any help to get by, but some need to be held while walking with life. Growing up it was very hard to get Andrew and I as the correct person, indeed we were twins and that spread a lot of confusion across many people. As a twin there is a twin that always seems more dominant than the other, and I was more dominant than Andrew. Naturally I was less shy and more outgoing, but I had no idea that just because I wanted a high notoriety, it would leed me into a terrible schooling life. There were days I didn’t want to go to school just so I could avoid my bullies.